Growing Balls.
Balls in ALL the courts!
Is this it? The end of masculinity as we know it? Or are women equally at fault in the game of dating?
It's the 21st century and gender roles don't exist anymore. For the most part, women can play the role of men. I'm all for women's rights, believe me. But somewhere along the way from evolving stay-at-home moms to today's female CEOs, one thing hasn't changed: men growing balls.
The old adage of how "a man should make the first move" is, in my opinion, feudal at best. Much like how guys are pushing back against paying for dinners--the argument that this isn't the 1940s, you women have jobs now--women feel us men need to initiate the approach at the bar, at the supermarket, or your friend's wedding.
This needs to stop.
When spotting that attractive dame across the room.
How men think a girl will react upon approaching her.
What is it about having ingrained in the minds of men that they should make the first move? Is it a measure of confidence? How do women define that? It's what every woman lists in their online dating profile.
I wouldn't want to be around a woman who wanted me making all the decisions or who felt inferior to me. That would be pretty creepy (insert new meme "Unassertive Girlfriend"). I would much rather have a woman who could stand up and be my equal than a woman who thinks I should be "in charge."
What usually happens when most men ask a girl out.
Perhaps this is a signal of change. Or my way of speaking on behalf of the men out there who prefer the girl making eye contact across the bar to make the first move. If neither of you act on it, who knows what you'll miss out on.
Ladies: Have you approached a man before? Do you feel men should approach you instead of the other way around?
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